A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in
front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a large empty
mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, mostly about 2"
in diameter. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into
the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled
into the open areas between the rocks. He then asked the students
again if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The students laughed. The professor picked up a box of sand and
poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything
else. "Now," said the professor, "I want you to recognise that this is your
life. The rocks are the important things - your family, your
partner, your health, your children - things that if everything else
was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The
pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house,
your car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff." "If you put the sand into the jar first, there is no room for the
pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all
your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for
the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things
that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take
time to get medical check-ups. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to
work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the waste
disposal." "Take care of the rocks first - the things that really matter. Set
your priorities. The rest is just sand." But then... A student took the jar which the other students and the
professor had agreed was full, and proceeded to pour in a glass of
beer. Of course the beer filled the remaining spaces within the jar
making the jar truly full. The moral of this tale is: That no matter how full your life is,
there is always room for BEER.